When we meet someone that we are attracted to for the first time our brain releases all the feel good chemicals, dopamine (addictive), oxytocin (bonding) and serotonin (fantasy) and we can ‘fall in love’. This is referred to as the ‘honeymoon phase,’ we tend to see all of the positive aspects of this new person and we can be blind to the negatives. When we see more positives then negatives we are attracted to them and we become infatuated, evolutionarily speaking this initial